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Bnei Mitzvah
B'nei Mitzvah
Continuing the Traditions of Our People, From Generation to Generation
Becoming a B'nei Mitzvah marks a profound milestone in a young person's Jewish journey. At Congregation Beth Am, we honor this sacred tradition as a beginning—a moment when a child steps into Jewish adulthood, embracing the responsibilities and privileges of living a life guided by mitzvot (commandments).
Jewish law designates age thirteen for boys and twelve for girls as the threshold of maturity. On this day, the child is called to the Torah, joins the community in a new way, and begins a lifelong path of spiritual growth and communal responsibility.
The B'nei Mitzvah journey is not just about the ceremony—it’s a transformative experience for the entire family. It’s a time for learning, reflection, and connection to Jewish identity and values. Preparation begins in our Jewish Learning Center (JLC) or a Jewish day school, with at least three years of study leading up to the B'nei Mitzvah year.
Approximately seven months before the ceremony, each student is paired with a dedicated tutor for personalized guidance. During 7th grade, families also participate in monthly Tafrit TNT classes, enriching the experience through shared learning and community engagement.
For additional information or questions, please contact Rabbi Earne at rabbie@betham.com or call (858) 481-8454.
Thu, August 21 2025
27 Av 5785
Annual Town Hall Meeting
Attention to all parents who have children in 5th grade or born in 2015! Our annual B'nei Mitzvah Townhall meeting will be held on January 22, 2026. If you do not receive an email and need a B'nei Mitzvah date, please contact Rabbi Matthew Earne. Thank you.
Quick Links
B'nei Mitzvah Handbook (2025-2026)
B'nei Mitzvah Planning: FAQ Supplement
B'nei Mitzvah Aliyot & Honors Sheet
[coming soon]
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